Posted on Sunday, October 12, 2008
How do you go about telling your good mate that you are attracted to him? It’s a scenario I’m sure everyone has been in, where the lines that define your friendship get blurred. There is obviously a natural degree of attraction between good friends of the opposite sex. He’s your close friend for good reasons. He’s funny and intelligent. He’s individual and creative. You can tell him virtually anything and you know he’s not going to place judgment on you. You are completely yourself around him and you know he truly knows you. He’s got the bluest eyes that shipwreck you each and every time you look into them.
The thing about forbidden attraction is that it’s so fucking attractive. Knowing that you shouldn’t want it makes it even more desirable. So what are the options? Do I spill my guts and hope for the best? Or do I bite it down and wish it was his lips that I was kissing instead of someone else’s?